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When Doctors Discriminate

I am a person with chronic pain. I have an obscure malformation in my neck that causes a lot of problems due to its placement in a busy area. It can’t be fixed. They already tried. b I happen to also have a graduate degree in a field that makes …

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AbleismFeaturedPersonal Stories

Missing the bookcase for the forest

I’m on a new medication as of July. It’s working really well, only after I was on it for a few weeks, I started to have a lot of muscle stiffness, cramping and spasticity, including pharyngeolaryngeal pain. A lot more than usual. This is part and parcel to my underlying …

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Personal Stories

Anxiety

Imagine you’re making a soup. You’ve never tried any vegetables or meat before, and while you’re preparing the soup, a gremlin keeps adding all this salt. You don’t really know what salt tastes like, and you haven’t added any yourself. When you go to try the soup, it’s far too …

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AbleismFeatured

Ray Rice and Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy: #WhyIStayed

Ray Rice is an American football player who has been in the news this week for punching his fiancee in the face and knocking her unconscious in February of 2014. She later married him that March and continues to defend her husband to this day. Rice has been kicked out …

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Intersectional IssuesPersonal Stories

First World Solutions

First World Solutions I’ve seen the featured image show up on my facebook feed a few times now. The featured image states, “Annual deaths caused by the [sic] ALS: 5,600. Annual deaths caused by lack of access to clean water: 3,400,000.” The text is superimposed over an image of a …

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Ableism

Me and My Derp Cat

I have a derp cat. Her name is [redacted], but I call her derp cat, because she’s quite derpy. She’s my cat’s sister, and technically, she is not mine, but I feed her and I care for her, and she spends most of her time up in my apartment. If …

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Supreme Court Sides with Hobby Lobby

Some depressing news. The Supreme Court has ruled 5-4 that women are not entitled to prevent the health consequences of pregnancy (or other disorders that call for hormonal regulation). In my family, the mothers typically have some degree of moderate hearing loss. The reason for this, my mother learned a …

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AbleismPersonal Stories

OMG Chemicals!1!!1

I don’t remember when it was that I realized that when people said they didn’t want to be “dependent on chemicals,” they were referring to people like me. I just know there was a point in my life where I expected people to be able to see that I was …

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Personal Stories

I haven’t tried the oil from that snake yet!

My neighbor is in school to be an acupuncturist. She is by her own telling, $130,000 in debt pursuing this degree. She texts me one morning, asking if I can come down and chat with her for awhile on her porch. I say ok, and go down, and she’s asking …

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AbleismAccessibilityPersonal Stories

On being the squeaky wheel

As someone with a physical and cognitive disability, I find certain learning situations particularly challenging, the operative word being “situations” in contrast to “material.” I know from experience that sitting in a classroom on a hard chair with 60 other people for 3 continuous hours is very different from being …

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